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生活的强者，不是一路顺风顺水，而是路难走时他们把心态调整到了最好的状态。

遇事时，不斤斤计较，懂得释怀，前行路上便会畅通无阻；失意时，不生气，学会争气，所经历的磨难就是成长；低谷时，不抱怨，试着改变，每一步就都是向上的路。

The strong in life, not all the way smooth water, but the road difficult to go they adjust their mentality to the best state. When things happen, don't haggle over every ounce, know how to let go, the road ahead will be smooth; Frustrated, do not get angry, learn to strive for strength, the ordeal is to grow; When you're down, don't complain. Try to change. Every step is an upward path.有句话说：人的一生会经历三次成长，第一次是发现自己不是世界中心的时候；第二次是发现即使再怎么努力，有些事终究还是无能为力的时候；第三次是明知道有些事可能无能为力，但还是会尽力争取的时候。

人生最可怕的不是低谷，不是失败，而是自己心里没有了勇气和期待。

即使知道未来要走的路仍然艰难，还是希望你别放弃，再坚持一会儿。

上天不会亏待一直努力的人，你有多努力，时光它知道。

There is a saying that people experience growth three times in their life. The first time is when they find that they are not the center of the world. The second is to find that even though no matter how hard you try, something is ultimately powerless; The third time is when you know you can't do something, but you still try your best.The most terrible thing in life is not the trough, not the failure, but the lack of courage and expectation. Even though you know the road ahead is still hard, I hope you don't give up and hold on a little longer. God will not be unkind to those who work hard all the time. How hard you have worked, time knows.每一座山都有巅峰，每一个峡谷都有谷底。

人生也有跌宕起伏，高潮和低谷。

没有人一生都能平步青云，也没有人一生都时乖命蹇。

难题总有了结的一天。

随着时间的推移， 一切难题都会迎刃而解。

Every mountain has a peak. Every valley has its low point. Life has its ups and downs, its peaks and its valleys. No one is up all the time, nor are they down all the time. Problems do end. They are all resolved in time.铭记，生活充满了起起伏伏，而且，若没有了人生的低谷，那站在高处亦失去了意义。

Remember that life is full of ups and downs, and without the downs, the ups would mean nothing.找到一颗心，在你最低谷的时候爱你，找到一双手，在你最脆弱的时候拥抱你。

Find a heart that will love you at your worst and arms that will hold your weakest.

男人在人生最低谷的时候，该做些什么？此刻你什么也不要做，你会越想越迷茫，越想越没头绪，你首先要做的是 平复焦虑的心情冷静下来，然后去爬山跑到大山顶上静坐二小时，时而望向远方，你会发现在大自然面前 一切都显得那么的渺小，一切的辉煌与失败终将是尘归尘土归土，云雾散尽一切成空，没什么了不起放不下的，闭目 回想过去，是非对错已成过去，明天终将新的开始。

人生一世 难免磕磕碰碰 免不了起起伏伏，谁不曾辉煌过，谁不曾失败过，谁又不曾迷茫过 失败是人生的一本教科书，成功有时掌握不好 就会成为一碗迷魂汤，应放下过去 寻找新的生机 ，整合你的资源，先做你力所能及的事情，放下面子先度过短暂的难关，切不可莽撞 你的选择会牵扯到整个家庭的生活运行，只有边工作边去发现掌握新的机遇 ，待时机成熟 再放手一搏 ，一切都是过程，