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flocked 农村“妻跑族”一年比一年增多，究竟是什么原因导致媳妇跑了？

听到村里结婚不满一年的小两口离婚的消息，农村群众挠挠头，咋想也想不通，家里装了大电视机、空调，甚至洗衣机，也不用你自己洗衣服，生活负担明显减轻，这媳妇怎么一年跑得比一年多？农村咋就留不住人了呢？其实，原因有以下三一、城市化进程加快，人口流动随之加快在中国改革开放后，城市发展迅速，大量的农村青年为了生计涌入城市中，车水马龙、灯红酒绿的繁华城市让农村人视野扩宽，见识到不同的生活习俗，同时生活习惯发生改变，接受新兴的思想。

一对夫妻为了赚钱可能会分居两地，距离、时间、思想上的改变，产生各自的社交圈，在一起见面也没有共同话题，离婚也成了大势所趋。

二、女性意识崛起，摆脱在家相夫教子的传统21世纪农村的物质条件不断改善，教育普及提高，农村人也不是大字不识一个的乡巴佬了，在温饱不愁的日子里，人们想得更多是如何提高自己的知识水平，追求更高的生活质量。

有些农村人思想上仍旧处于落后状态，男性用暴力手段控制妻子，觉得这是我老婆，我不打谁打？但是相较于传统的家庭环境，现代女性们不愿意向自己的母辈一样，为夫是命，唯唯诺诺，失去自我，对于不幸福的婚姻她们会勇敢的说不，努力保障自己的权益。

三、固定死板的婚恋观埋藏隐患以往在农村，女性多看重男性是否老实，男性多看重女性是否贤惠，忽略最重要的感情因素，只要二者契合一段婚姻便形成了。

另外“父母之命媒妁之言”，农村的年轻人们盲目听从父母的要求，匆忙结婚逃避压力，但俗话说，鞋子要自己穿才知道合不合适。

在感情薄弱的基础上，一旦有任何鸡毛蒜皮的小事都会闹得不可开交，女性及时清醒，摆脱错误的婚姻，抽身离开。

在传统观念中，农村绝大多数人不会轻易离婚，这是一件会成为街坊邻居的饭后谈资的事情。

但是社会的车轮不断前进，个人的力量无法阻挡。

在这个多元化的社会环境中，有着觉醒意识的女性们更看重自己在婚姻中的独立地位，而不是一提及就是某某家的老婆，思想上的解放、经济上的宽裕，女性可以独立生存是她们离婚的资本。

~Hearing the news of the divorce of the young couple who had been married for less than a year in the village, the rural people scratched their heads and couldn't imagine how to get through it. They installed a large TV set, air conditioner and even a washing machine in their home, and did not wash their clothes by themselves. The living burden was significantly reduced. How can the countryside not keep people? In fact, there are three reasons.First, the urbanization process is accelerating, and the population flow is acceleratingAfter China's reform and opening up, cities developed rapidly, and a large number of rural youth flocked to cities for their livelihood. The bustling cities with heavy traffic and bright lights broaden the vision of rural people, allowing them to see different life customs. At the same time, their living habits changed and they accepted new ideas. In order to make money, a couple may live apart. Distance, time, and changes in thinking create their own social circles. When they meet together, they have no common topics to discuss.Second, the rise of female consciousness, getting rid of the tradition of taking care of husband and children at homeIn the 21st century, the material conditions in rural areas are constantly improving, and the popularization of education is improving. Rural people are no longer a country bumpkin who does not know a single character. In the days of food and clothing, people think more about how to improve their knowledge level and pursue a higher quality of life. Some rural people are still in a backward state of mind. Men use violent means to control their wives. They think this is my wife. However, compared with the traditional family environment, modern women are not willing to be like their mothers, who are obedient to their husbands and lose themselves. They will bravely say no to an unhappy marriage and strive to protect their own rights and interests.Third, fixed and rigid view of love and marriage buried hidden dangersIn the past, in rural areas, women pay more attention to the honesty of men, men pay more attention to the virtue of women, ignoring the most important emotional factors, as long as the two fit a marriage will be formed. In addition, "their parents' orders are arranged by the matchmaker". In the countryside, young people blindly follow their parents' demands and get married in a hurry to escape the pressure. But as the saying goes, the shoes don't fit until you wear them. On the basis of weak feelings, once there are any trivial matters will make a bee, women timely sober up, get rid of the wrong marriage, get away.In the traditional view, the vast majority of people in the countryside will not easily divorce, this is a thing that will become the after-dinner talk of the neighbors. But the wheels of society move forward, and individual power cannot be held back. In this diversified social environment, women with awakening consciousness pay more attention to their independent status in marriage, rather than mentioning the wife of a certain family. Ideological liberation, economic wealth, and women's ability to survive independently are the capital of their divorce.

女方认为男方不能如，自己所愿，跑，是恐吓，威胁，要条件，无休止的闹，从自家经济不知底，到她的近人胡说巴道，我亲身经历了，从结婚到离婚跑了7次，然后要条件，骂骂咧咧，不讲理，现在托人想复婚我不要，而且用黑社会恐吓拆，掠，夺，偷，我不畏惧，我是报警大事户，所以我们的法制教育太少了，让守法人无耐，