What's the more important IQ or EQ

Speaking of the relationship between IQ and EQ, I believe we are not unfamiliar to us IQ represents a person's smart, determined that a person's own ability; EQ on behalf of a rich person's feelings or not, reflected in a variety of emotional exchanges, the decision is only as good relations between people IQ and EQ is usually when it is irreconcilable, on the other side often mean the loss, so only the elite universities can not take care of themselves living the high incidence of cases For NBA players, IQ and EQ dispute can not be ignored is an important factor, which determines the party's future direction IQ, said a person learning basketball skills and tactical understanding of the capacity, if it chose not to worry about a huge contract; on behalf of the EQ with teammates and coaches the ability to communicate, the ability to read the game as well as the leadership team Ability to grasp that it is a truly great leader in the field, which is Union has put emphasis on cultivating talented people Both the pros and cons I come to you to do an analysis

High-IQ people who have outstanding personal technology and great value, is the most intuitive: they are the core of the team They have a presence, there is a fundamental victory hopes The main type of talent to high school students for more, we all know so well, such as Bryant, McGrady, Garnett, James and others Without exception, they have excellent ability of individuals, each team is an integral core of these players, the High IQ Society of them had great basketball skills, and to this end they brought the core of And the status of the huge contract But the seemingly enviable behind the scenery there is a hidden hard

he or she to suicide Also noteworthy is the fact that women teachers suffering stress overcome men The impact of teachers taking stress is that they may vent their anger on their students

According to the research, three out of four teachers suffering stress Nevertheless, they have some similar depression symptoms Take emotionally disturbed for an example, it is a very obvious case It is commonly known that if someone’s EQ is low, it is likely for

应该是which is more important, IQ or EQ 不要标题说出去就被人笑话了。。 下面是我以前参考过的文章，也给你参考下吧。。 While IQ (Intelligence Quotient) defines how smart you are, EQ (Emotional Quotient) defines how well you use what smarts you have Peter Salovey, Yale psychologist and author of the term EQ, states that IQ gets you hired, EQ gets you promoted He also suggests that it's important to redefine, in our complex world, what it means to be smart In short, when it comes to "predicting future successes," brainpower, as measured by IQ and standardized achievement tests, may actually matter less than the character, or EQ of an individual Salovey tells of a simple test where four year olds are invited into a room and are given the following instruction: "You can have this marshmallow right now; or if you wait, you can have two marshmallows when I get back" Then, the researcher leaves Some kids grab for the treat the second he's out the door, while others wait for the researcher to return The results are recorded and Science waits for the kids to grow up By the time the kids reach high school, significant differences appear between the two groups The kids who held out for two marshmallows were better adjusted, more popular, more adventurous, more confident, and more dependable than kids in the quick gratification group The latter group was also more likely to be lonely, more easily frustrated, more stubborn, more likely to buckle under stress, and more likely to shy away from challenges When both groups took scholastic aptitude tests, the "hold out group" walloped the "quick gratification group by 210 points (the test scores range from a minimum of 200 points to a maximum of 800, with an average for all students of 500 points) Did you ever wonder what happened to the smartest kid in the class who didn't end up being successful, or why some of your friends survive the greatest trauma while others crumble over minor issues Perhaps it is because of differences in a person's EQ EQ is not the opposite of IQ, and indeed it is hoped that people have generous quantities of both But, there is little doubt that people without sufficient EQ will have a hard time surviving in life For five generations researchers have been discussing whether it's possible to raise a person's IQ Geneticists say No, while social scientists say Yes But while brain power researchers continue the debate, social science researchers have concluded that it's possible to improve a person's EQ, and in particular, a person's "people skills," such as empathy, graciousness, and the ability to "read" a social situation Social scientists continually cite situations where experiences have modified a person's EQ For example, educational researchers indicate that when normal students are introduced to disabled peers, those in the former group dramatically improve their ability to become empathetic and gracious Additionally, the introduction of behaviourally disturbed students in a class of normal aged peers increases the ability of the latter group to learn to "read" social situations A more profound improvement is frequently noted in the behaviourally disturbed student as well Social scientists conclude that EQ is perhaps best observed in people described as either pessimists or optimists Optimists have high EQ and treat obstacles as minor, while the pessimistic low-EQ group personalizes all setbacks In social research circles, high EQ denotes one's ability to survive, and it's here that there may be an overlap between EQ, IQ, genetics and environment In this regard, I am reminded of the words of Darwin, "The biggest, the smartest, and the strongest are not the survivors Rather, the survivors are the most adaptable" Those of us who survive and thrive in this complex world are not only the most adaptable, but also the most optimistic and the most likely to have a high EQ

One old person complained to the doctor that his right ear was giving him trouble; he couldn't hear

So the doctor checked, checked, checked, listened, listened and said, "Oh, you know your ear trouble is an old age problem Your eaLet me take it down

An elephant said to a mouse ,"no doubt that you are the smallest znd most useless thing that Ihave e ver seen "

"Pless ,say it again Let me take it down "the mouse said "I will tell a flea what I know"

为我所用

一头大象对一只小老鼠说：“你无疑是我见过的最小、最没用的东西。”

“请再说一遍，让我把它记下来。”老鼠说。“我要讲给我认识的一只跳蚤听。

Two birls

Teacher: Here are two birds, one is a swallow, the other is sparrow Now who can tell us which is which

Student: I cannot point out but I know the answer

Teacher: Please tell us

Student: The swallow is beside the sparrow and the sparrow is beside the swallow

两只鸟

老师： 这儿有两只鸟，一只是麻雀。谁能指出哪只是燕子，哪只是麻雀吗？

学生：我指不出，但我知道答案。

老师：请说说看。

学生：燕子旁边的就是麻雀，麻雀旁边的就是燕子。

The Fish Net

"Can you tell me what fish net is made, Ann"

"A lot of little holes tied together with strings" replied the little girl

鱼网

"你能告诉我鱼网是什么做的吗，安？" 老师发问道。

"把许多小孔用绳子栓在一起就成了鱼网了。" 小女孩回答道。

The New Teacher

George comes from school on the first of September

"George, how did you like your new teacher" asked his mother

"I didn\'t like her, Mother, because she said that three and three were six and then she said that two and four were six too"

新老师

9月1日， 乔治放学回到家里。

"乔治，你喜欢你们的新老师吗？" 妈妈问。

"妈妈，我不喜欢，因为她说3加3得6, 可后来又说2加4也得6。"

A physics Examination

Once in a physics examination, Nick finished the first question very soon, while his classmates were thinking it hard

The question was: When it thunders why do we see the lighting first, then hear the thunderrolls

Nick\'s answer: Because our eyes are before ears

一次物理考试

在一次物理考试时，当同学们都还在苦思冥想时，尼克很快就答好了第一个问题。

这个问题是：为什么在打雷时，我们总是先看到闪电后听到雷声？

尼克的回答是：因为眼睛在前，耳朵在后。

American psychologists believe that emotional intelligence include the following aspects: First, recognize their own emotions Only recognize their own because, in order to become masters of their own lives Two are able to properly manage their own emotions That is, to control their own; three are self-motivation, it can out of life is low, re-starting Four others are emotional awareness This is normal exchanges with others, successfully achieve basic communication; Yes five Interpersonal relations management That is, the leadership and management capabilities

That EQ is it Let us veil撩开EQ, take a look at what EQ In 1990, the United States more than two psychologists called德拉勒维, one called约翰麦耶, they proposed the "EQ" of the word, when they are emotional IQ to EQ, friends, EQ the "situation "mean What is EQ A long time, people's emotional intelligence has been a mystery so difficult to get close to us and EQ, it is difficult to grasp, it is difficult to embrace and EQ There is one song was very well written, between the advent of what the situation,生死相许only tell people, look how much the story of the world, Three Variations of Plum Flowers are the most ecstasy Who wrote, Qiongyao Writing of the situation she男欢女爱are the feelings of the emotional intelligence of our "love" is not男欢女爱, EQ are the initials of its EQ, IQ is the IQ, EQ then what is it Is the emotional quotient, emotional intelligence, emotional intelligence, emotional intelligence This is what we always said that the rational, sensible, rational, reasonable, mainly referring to the confidence of you, your perseverance, your determination, your patience, your intuition, your anti-down, and your spirit of cooperation and so on a wide range of people to reflect the degree of quality Mainly psychological quality Feel that he is a person to understand, control, and others use to express their emotional ability of a feelings

Friends, high and low EQ can be demonstrated by a series of capacity The Daniel Goleman, writing "emotional intelligence" of the United States this book, Professor EQ ability to put people's ability to be summed up as the top five

First, the ability to recognize their own emotions, that is your own emotions you want to recognize it, someone called him emotional awareness tube Take my case, an analogy, I have to work the President, from one out of my house, just one out of the house, someone poured poured above the water, he splashed in the water the flowers at my body, it is the first light to fight dirty, and playing dirty clothes, and I are so amazing想骂turned him out, one look, no one, and not a gas that is necessary to work with gas, go to work, and my Director of the Office to see me, had the President, a nine o'clock, you going to meet what will be open, I interrupted him, What will be, now that the central long, Wenshan will remove the sea, you also asked me to meet meeting meeting The Director of the Office that the President had today, how do ah, ate closure medicine, I have just come to the office to the Assistant to the President, the President had about a person, and you want the talks What is talk talk, your job is to interrupt my schedule, you will not let me take a break, how you do engage in the Assistant said that the president of how to engage today After a few days, the Assistant Director of the Office and in front of the face that had the President, how are you engaged in the day, and I said how do I engage in, and I do not how to engage the I do not know I do not have awareness, I do not have knowledge of their sentiments, I put the water poured into the bad feelings onto the job You at home with his wife inside a noisy, probably to put units on the mood, you are bad at the gas unit, and not to one's liking and returned home to find his son to find his wife angry hair gas, the same way, and not yourself know When you do not encounter one's liking, you can not attend a lecture class to concentrate on classes, which are not able to acknowledge their good mood, so we called the Chinese have a saying in the three provinces I吾身day, instead of reviewing the deficiencies Is said to be self-awareness, including awareness of their feelings, their emotions, which is about the capacity of the first EQ

The capacity of the second EQ what is it Want of proper capacity to manage their own emotions, not to let their emotions like a runaway wild horse, emotional, emotional, runaway horse, unable to control

The third capacity, the capacity of self-motivation

The fourth ability, the ability to recognize feelings of others Not only to control their own emotions and feelings of others depends on ah Called outright,顾着themselves, other people watch Watch other people's feelings, say so outright

Fifth, interpersonal skills, ability to deal with

EQ training methods than a lot of training, in my opinion, there is the more prominent of five methods First, the training of emotion, emotion You want the training of the emotions, feelings How the training In my opinion there is some advice, first of all, emotions are cognitive, emotional awareness just now spoke, and then analysis of emotions, and then to assess emotional On the emotional feelings you look what has defects, shortcomings Where Then again, to control their emotions and mediate emotions, feelings and emotional stability of the coordination of him not to big ups and downs, not moody, it is necessary to maintain a stable mood, not to forget the good time, carried away; times of adversity not to appear negative low hit the time to calmly, easily coping, coping

Some specific recommendations for the following, first, to manage anger What is also a way Transfer method!

Skills are also small, what Count, the number of figure, 12, want you angry, 1,234,567, and slowly a few, have been a few that do not get angry, it is said that a few number of the figure 60, the hair will generally not have the fire up and try a few to 60

What is also a way On the toilet, to anger, and whether it has no intention of urine to the toilet to get squat for 20 minutes to squat over, calm attitude Although indecent, one may wish to try

Then rational control, ability to exercise their own self-control, what is there, the cultivation of the world, life and values, so the first our anger about how to do

The second to overcome the tension, pressure, contradictions, conflicts, risks and crises, it is easy to make us nervous, too much tension on the body of work will do no good to life, to overcome the tension that is what Have the right objectives, communication and coordination, learn to enjoy recreational activities take part in a number of civilizations China Central Television to come and listen to our reports, these are very good

Third, to avoid impatience, mainly cultivate their own忍性, the appropriate goal, there is degree of relaxation, calm and cool-headed, Institute of cold treatment

Fourth, out of negative emotions, develop their own positive emotions, warm attitude, open mind, the mentality of a sense of accomplishment that they find pleasure, brought fun

Fifth, give vent to their reasonable, because too much stress, you control control, control Walled heart, explosion, controlled explosion inside the stomach could be an appropriate outlet Acts of language use to vent their negative emotions in mind, maintaining a balanced attitude This is also a way how to do Go to a big mountain, no one of the big mountain, shouting into the mountains, vent, Shouted when doing an exaggeration of motion, relax, and a vent

The country has a president how his subordinates are proposed, and his subordinates is a high official, the President, I am the person I really want to恨极him揍死 The president said not to hit him, I suggest you call him a letter, discredited by a few curse him One of the officials think the president has suggested that I call him a letter Writing ah, just go back and write a letter, curse the world, almost all in Writing, written President, how do you watch, when I sent him, not to send him, burn, In any case, the most you would have scolded想骂, and Writing, and the vent, you burnt it We are now implementing psychologists, psychiatrists in fact, most of us here can be a psychiatrist, you are the best teachers I have psychologists What is the meaning Psychologists is that most of the time, his patience to listen to listen to the voices of patients, as long as there is a psychological well being of patients with the audience will be able to put him in a good psychological effect of a change, he said奇效heard

Sixth, learn to relax The primary means of relaxing what are Institute of relaxing mood, relaxing way to a very important one is the humor, want a sense of humor, humor, in particular stress the spirit be able to reduce the psychological stress I wrote a 1991 book, humorous book, at the beginning of this book is written by me Humor is a release, you look on the solution of humor, and relax on the off, this book is so I wrote a paragraph, my friends, not to forget the high-grade humorous gifts that other people gifts

Seventh, take into account the feelings of others, can not watch their emotions, it is necessary to take into account the feelings of others, especially our pupils and students, we must focus on training in this area, some people an emotional impulse, not taking into account other people's emotional情绪

Eight, it is necessary to create an emotional environment Student emotions, feelings, people and future generations of our emotions, feelings, a very large extent on where they are schools, where families cultivate trained If we say that family harmony, kind Teacher, Student co-operation, social harmony, and to students on the impact of our young people are particularly high This is the training of an invisible, silent cultivate, it is extremely important Although he is a silent invisible, is the invisible, visible, there is sound of silence at this time This is me talking about the first five methods of approach, the training of our emotional feelings

The second way to do that Learn to deal with interpersonal relationships Friends, deal with interpersonal relationships This is a thick layer of hieroglyphics, we want some people a lifetime to finally point, not yet read this book through, then how to deal with interpersonal relationships, I have some recommendations below, the first , the people of tolerance, tolerance better than the millions of soldiers, the second, consider transposition, sitting in a chair for you, consider transposition Third, learn to care about Fourth caring Fifth have compassion Sixth, communication and coordination Seventh, integrity and honesty Eight, good co-operation Ninth, happy to lose Suffer a kind of spirit are at the expense of his pay, pay can be, willing to spend, has only been rounding Tenth, dedication sacrifice This is the first I have developed a method of EQ

The third development of the EQ training methods To be optimistic about the open-minded, good at open-minded optimism, brought pleasure, brought fun, how you feel optimistic or pessimistic, this is an important aspect of EQ was EQ This is an important factor, so someone said, will come optimistic, pessimistic about the possible anti - victory for the defeat My friends, here there is a half glass of water, if I feel pessimistic, I would say, Oh, Oh, no, only a half glass of water, how to do, if I was feeling very good person, open-minded person I am optimistic, I will how to say Wow, have a half glass of water very good, after all, have a half glass of water is also a half of water, my views on the different Some people say that happiness Where is it Happiness brought me to where to find the happy There is a cat, Old, worried all day, a worried frown, think about him all over the world are the least happy of the Old, but occasionally one watch, a small cat,打圈on the ground, biting its own tail that they own a circular motion to bite its own tail,乐不可支, Old said, small cats, how can you so happy Small kitten that I have the tail on Happiness Old home inside and out like a kitten, a circular motion to bite their own tail, bite, bite, really happy, then it is understood, are happy at their own tails up

This is a joke of course, this is a joke, he stated that he was what you sure you want to find Happiness, Happiness brought their own Happiness I can set up units in our development set up at our nation's prosperity on the whole, can be set up at Happiness on the success of others, on its own success, happiness can also be used to help others set up at my success, that is These are not, I is not really happy, but I am from a different angle, he might be happy, for a way of thinking, do not put into Happiness on Happiness

She does not have an old lady happy, why not be happy, she worries that her anxiety, her two sons, her coke, she has two sons, a son of the umbrella are sold, a cloth of All the rain, her anxiety, and why All the rain, my son was dry cloth how do ah Yim Po that he is not the right The weather was fine, and my two sons how to sell the umbrellas go out Rain her anxiety, her anxiety of the sun Both anxiety and coke to the disease, and there is a wise man told her that it a way of thinking for you, glad you all the rain, my son's two umbrella sold Fine I am happy, ah, my son do a dry cloth I am glad that Rain is also pleased that I am also glad the sun, from a different angle, EQ

Fourth methods EQ our fourth training methods are positive and enterprising People with high EQ, he has a very high ambition, enterprise, initiative is always full of hope for the future What is full of hope for the future of society, the motherland, the nation, and the units themselves, their family, life is full of hope

French writer Maupassant has a famous saying, people are living in hope of the Medium I hope that there is probably a positive, even a dream, a dream will not even make the nation there is no hope of the nation, everyone is our dream, good dreams, I would like to earn more money tomorrow, I hope a better tomorrow to listen to the report, are dreaming of a weave our dreams, work hard, to realize their dreams, to dream, to strive for, dreams shattered, I would like to go for a dream come true, I also continue to achieve for dream, for dreams dashed, for dream, realize, life is just like that Full of hope Friends, to the zoo to see, look the best when the peacock, the screen, watch the best Peacock Kai-Ping, peacock screen after you open it do not look positive, go behind you to take a look at it, not look good at all, in front of Kai-Ping the end, you look behind the bare, you do not look positive, to look after it, too bad you said Peacock, and bare in front of you the best look of the watch are not

The fifth method is the opportunity to treat life, some people say that high IQ people will find opportunities for people with high EQ will seize the opportunity, people with high stress business, will not easily give up the opportunity We would like to say that our EQ training to treat life opportunities, especially to give many a chance of success

Fall than climb up one more success Many give him a few opportunities, a chance, which is in fact a deep sense of our deep feeling ah r is getting old, that's allThat's why you can't hear"So the patient said, "Nonsense, the left ear is just as old

中文：

有个老人向医生抱怨右耳有问题，听不见。

医生检查又检查、听了又听，然后说：「哦！你知道吗？你耳朵有毛病是因为年老的关系，你的右耳已经老化了，所以才听不到。」

病人说：「胡说！我的左耳也一样老呀！」

There were two men who went out to eat together They ordered fish So on the table there were two fish

Normally not all the fish are alike in size, so there was one small, and one big The first man just took

the big one for himself without asking and feeling ashamed, or anything; and ate it The other friend

felt very disturbed and annoyed, he didn't know what to say So he thought for a while, and then he said,

" If it were me," I would have taken the smaller one first" So the other guy said," See! I knew that!

That's why I took the big one"

有两个人一起出去吃饭，结果点了两条鱼，不久之后，鱼就上桌了，但是通常鱼的大小都不太一样，所以送来的鱼也是一条大一条小。结果第一个人问也不问，就把比较大的那条鱼夹起来吃，一点都没有不好意思的样子。

另一个人看了心里很不高兴，但是也不知道该说什么才好。他想了一会儿，终于开口说：「如果是我的话，我一定会先拿那条小鱼。」另一个人就接口说：「看吧！我就知道，所以我刚刚才拿大鱼。」

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你的身边有没有这样一个人，她每天面带微笑，对任何事情看起来都淡淡的，不争不抢，不出风头，可是却好像和每个人的关系都很好，无论是一些经常被大家忽略的人，还是那种特别难搞的人，她都有密切的私交。也许她看起来学习或工作的时间不比别人多，却能够在集体表现中，样样优秀；你甚至会纳闷她为什么会那么招人喜欢，看起来那么幸运？

You have such a person, she smile everyday, for any thing looks pale, indisputable rob, not pushy, but it seems to have good relations with every person, whether some people often overlooked by people, or that are especially difficult person, she has a close personal relationship She may look to study or work time is not more than others, but to everything in the collective performance excellent,; you may even wonder why she is so well liked, it looks so lucky

没错，答案是"情商"。俗话说，人的成功=80%情商+20%智商；更何况较智商来说，情商是一个人为可改变的变量，于是，情商变成大众情人一样的话题，有人为之探索、渴求，并向往成为更好的人。

Yes, the answer is "eq" As the saying goes, people's success =80% EQ +20% IQ; what's more than IQ, EQ is a person to be changed variables, then, EQ into public lover as topic, human exploration, desire, and desire to become better person

一、情商到底长什么样子？ 很多人心心念念的名字，可是这神秘面纱背后的真正含义到底是什么呢？ 情绪商数（Emotional Intelligence Quotient，简写EQ），通常简称为情商。为美国心理学家彼德·萨洛维于1991年创立，是一种自我情绪（如自信、乐观、急躁、恐惧、直觉等）控制能力的指数。说白了，情商就是每个人与自我相处，与他人相处的能力。

A, EQ in the end what look like Many people keep thinking about names, but what is the real meaning behind this mysterious veil Emotional quotient (Emotional Intelligence Quotient, abbreviated EQ), commonly referred to as the Eq For American psychologist Peter Salovey founded in 1991, is a kind of self emotion (such as confident, optimistic, impatient, fear, intuition etc) control ability index To put it bluntly, EQ is each person with others, the ability to get along with others

二、情商是由什么构成的？ 现在的你面对着快节奏的生活，高负荷的工作和复杂的人际关系，你也相信没有高的情商是很难达到成功的，所以你渴望着改变和提高，可是要从何入手呢？ 美国哈佛大学心理学教授尼尔戈尔曼提出情商的构成特点。 1、自我意识：知道自己当下的情感以及情感的缘由。 2、自我调节：即使碰到了困难，也能控制自己的情绪。 3、自我激励：面对挫折能坚持，自我开导和积极的态度。 4、有同理心：能认识他人的情感，理解他人。 5、社交技能：通过倾听，理解和欣赏他人的感受，与人和睦相处。 所以，高情商的人具有较强的情绪调节能力，能够正确认识并接纳自己，有乐观积极的生活态度和良好的人际关系。

Two, EQ is what constitutes Now you face the life of fast rhythm, high work load and complex interpersonal relationship, you also believe that no high EQ is very difficult to achieve a successful, so you eager to change and improve, but where to start USA Harvard University psychology professor Neal Goleman proposed the composition characteristics of Eq 1, self consciousness: know why their present feelings and emotions 2, the self regulating: even if the difficulties encountered, can control your emotions 3, self motivation: the face of setbacks can insist, enlighten selves and positive attitude 4, empathy: can understand the emotions of others, understand others 5, social skills: by listening, understanding and appreciation of the feelings of others, and people live together in peace together Therefore, high EQ people with strong emotion regulation ability, able to correctly recognize and accept yourself, have positive and optimistic attitude towards life and good interpersonal relationship

三、如何提高情商 1、认识自己的情绪 情绪的一般定义，是人各种的感觉、思想和行为的一种综合的心理和生理状态，是对外界刺激所产生的心理反应，以及附带的生理反应，如：喜、怒、哀、乐等。如果按照定义去理解，情绪是一种反应，我们就会发现每一件事情都有生气的理由。他竟然对我用那么不屑一顾的态度！你没有听到他用什么恶毒的语气说的话吗？！她这么随意打断我讲话真的好讨厌……既然他们做了刺激我的事，那我理所当然该生他们的气。 但实际上，情绪不是一种反应，而是一种决定。他该不该这么对我，和我该不该发火，其实可以分作两件事情来看。它们的差别是，前者的情绪是一种被动的反应，而后者是一种主动的决定。 为什么这么说呢？你想想看，比如跟男朋友约会，他迟到了半个小时。有人的感受是非常生气，怎么可以迟到 ？有人的感觉则是会担心：他会不会出了什么事 ？也有人会想，他既然迟到一定有不得已的原因，反而产生了体谅的感觉。这下能理解了，我们所有的情绪，其实都是我们诠释事件之后的主动决定。 2、管理自己的情绪 认识情绪接着就是管理情绪。通常管理情绪的方法偏向于技巧类，比如情绪快要爆发时深呼吸、站窗边眺望远方等等，应该说都是有效的但治标不治本。一个人发火，其实很有可能不是因为导火索的那件事情。 有一个故事是这样的，某个科学家早上起床没找到拖鞋，有点恼火。当时他没注意到自己在生气，他去卫生间洗簌，这时候生气一直在自己生长，他刮胡子，不小心剃须刀掉地上了，捡起来不小心又掉了，他心情更糟。但他不能对剃须刀发脾气啊，他走出来卫生间，了解到小孩昨天的作业没有做完，于是他大发雷霆，打了小孩一巴掌。他老婆莫名其妙，于是他们吵了起来。科学家摔门而出，开车上班去办公室。但最后他没到达办公室，因为路上出车祸了。 整个事情的起因是因为早上没有找到拖鞋吗

Three, how to improve the general definition of EQ 1, know their own mood, is all kinds of feelings, thoughts and behavior of a kind of comprehensive psychological and physiological state, is a psychological reaction to environmental stimuli, and the accompanying physiological responses, such as: joy, anger, sorrow, happy and so on If in accordance with the definition to understand, emotion is a reaction, we will find that everything has a reason for anger He should use to me as a contemptuous disregard attitude! You haven't heard him with what vicious tone say! She is so free to interrupt me really hate Since they did stimulate me things that I take for granted the angry with them But in fact, the mood is not a reaction, but a decision He shouldn't do this to me, and I ought to get angry, in fact, can be divided into two things to see The difference is that the former is the mood of a passive response, while the latter is an active decision Why do you say that You see, date with my boyfriend for example, he was half an hour late Some people feel very angry, how can you be late Some people feel it is worried about: he will not be what happened There are also people who think, since he has no reason for being late, but had a considerate feeling This can be understood, all our emotions, in fact, are active after the decision of our interpretation of events 2, the management of their emotional understanding emotions and then is the management of emotion Usually emotional management method of bias in the skill categories, such as emotional verge of deep breathing, standing the window overlooking the distance and so on, it should be said are effective but palliative A person is angry, it is quite possible not because that thing the fuse There is such a story, a scientist to get up in the morning not find slippers, a little annoyed At that time, he didn't notice his angry, he went to the bathroom to wash sieve, then angry has been in its own growth, he was shaving razor, accidentally fell down, picked it up and accidentally fell, he felt worse But he could not lose his temper on razor ah, he walked out of the bathroom, to understand children yesterday's homework not finished, and he was furious, hit the child a slap in the face His wife is puzzling, so they quarreled Scientists have stormed out, to drive to the office But in the end he did not arrive at the office, because the road in a car accident The cause of the whole thing is because the morning did not find the slippers

1 EQ与IQ并不对立。有些人天赋优异，IQ和EQ都很高；有些悲催的人则相反。

2 最终其达到成熟期，之后便是一个几乎不可避免的衰退期。（经济？股市？）

3 斯托特说：“作为家长，我们非常希望孩子能从不犯错，但是这种愿望（及其驱使的行为）通常只会带来更多的问题。”

4 假如关于股票有什么特别的技巧，那就是当人们蜂拥购买股票时，股票的价格也就会迅速水涨船高。（废话）

5 人们意识到家庭生活中的不和谐因素近些年来已经造成了严重的后果。因此，越来越多的人开始将家庭放在首要的位置。

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What is emotional intelligence and is it important Can you learn, or relearn, emotional intelligence Is it related, directly or indirectly, with the ability to manage people Or, leadership Or, People skills Why do you think so

Wikipedia defines emotional intelligence as: the ability, capacity, skill or a self-perceived grand ability to identify, assess, manage and control the emotions of one's self, of others, and of groups

Does emotional intelligence really involve controlling the emotions of others

Prior to the age of 30 I could easily perceive the emotions of others yet struggled to control my own I would challenge anyone who would give off mixed signals - let me tell ya, They Don't Like It!! lol Anyway, now I feel like I gained the ability to control my own emotions (to a certain degree) but lost the ability to perceive the emotions of others unless its extreme Can emotional intelligence be relearned

Here in China they talk about EQ along with IQ - I have rarely been in any discussion that does not use the two things together

In the modern workplace and society generally - where who you know is at least as important as what you know - then considering both together would seem to make sense

Learning EQ is probably as impossible as learning IQ - unless we go through some major life change For me, after a lifetime of being THE Boss in my working life I have had to adapt to a completely different and deeply social life I would honestly say that after ten years of change, back to Uni, move to China, teaching, and other more life-changing but harder to describe situations - if my EQ has got better it is hardly noticeable

People who really truly lack self-control are usually recognizable by their inability to ever change their outlook, their opinions, their words, their whole routine They feel most comfortable in a very rigid routine and have (usually outmoded) opinions about things and people They say what comes to mind and do not self-edit, so often they speak without having all the info When they get into arguments they resort to name calling and putting down their opponent's life, or wife, or the way they speak People with no self-control desperately want to control their world, but usually are just laughed at

Most of us lack some self-control when we are really angered or in love or when we want something desperately It is very hard to be in control all the time - so that is why a wise person told me once that I should "choose carefully where and when I will lose control" - like you can spout off with someone who loves and understands you, but maybe not with your co-workers He also told me that the struggle of trying to maintain control would make me feel old and empty, so I should just try to open my heart and accept people, especially when they aren't doing or saying what I would like them to do or say

I haven't experienced that the people in "leadership" positions had especially great EQs On the contrary, some of them are just very good at getting the money and power through manipulation in order to further their own egos - that isn't high EQ, that's just manipulative behavior to get what you want People with high EQ are truly loved and respected and may not be the obvious leader in the group, even though every one will listen to what they say and often act on their advice

I really do try to model myself after these kind of people - who are usually very modest, low-key people who put their own egos last Of course, I like to act out with sarcasm, cynicism and dirty-talk sometimes, I hope I don't get totally out of control with it or actually harm or hurt anyone else Its a challenge

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